Flood the World with Kindness

Gayle & Mary outsideThis post by Gayle M. Irwin

Be Kind to Animals Week began this week. I originally thought it ran through Sunday, May 10, which happens to be Mother’s Day; however, within a week, I found a new website that says it runs until Saturday, May 9th. Either way, this special week overlaps the weekend we celebrate the special women in our lives, mostly our mothers and grandmothers (or those women who were like Mom and Grandma to us).

This year marks 100 years since Be Kind to Animals Week started being observed by organizations such as the American Humane Association, and this year marks the 99th year of Mother’s Day being officially recognized. During this special week, we can encourage kids, other adults, as well as ourselves to be kinder to others.

Cody and Mary_outside“Teach the children well,” are words in a Crosby, Stills and Nash song:

Teaching children kindness toward people and pets offers great rewards for those kids, including opportunity to do good in a community and the opportunity to make new friends. In fact, according to a research study called Kindness Counts, “When kids performed acts of kindness or took notice of the pleasant places they visited, their happiness quotient increased … (and) … they gained an average of 1.5 friends during the month-long period” (see related article at http://www.rootsofaction.com/art-kindness-teaching-children-care/).

Gayle_Sage_kidsWhat are some ways we can be kind to pets and people, including our mothers, and how can we more greatly instill kindness in others, including children? The list of ideas is endless, but here are some suggestions:

  1. Take care of your own pets. Ensure the animals under your care have clean water, plenty of food, shelter, and attention. Just like young children, our pets thrive from our caring, concern, devotion, and responsibility toward them. Children helping to care for the family pet learn responsibility as well as kindness.
  2. Help pets in need. Volunteer at and/or donate to local and regional animal rescue and welfare organizations. These non-profits need the help and support of their community to do their job, and who is the community? All of us!
  3. Another way to help animals in need is to create toys and other things for shelter pets. Items such as fleece blanket beds and cat toys can help shelter animals while they are waiting for their forever homes. You and your family or classroom can make these items and/or conduct a pet food and supply drive and then donate the items to the animal shelter and rescue groups in your area.
  4. Similarly, conduct a supply drive for the homeless and less fortunate people in your community. These can be canned food items, toiletries (such as toothpaste/brushes, shampoo, soap, hair brushes/combs, etc). Collect these items from neighbors, faith-based group studies, school, or service organizations to which you belong and then donate to your local rescue mission, food pantry, or similar entity.
  5. Serve a few meals each month at the local soup kitchen or be a delivery driver for Meals on Wheels – and include the kids in these service projects!
  6. Mow a neighbor’s lawn, especially an elderly or invalid neighbor.
  7. Caretake a friend’s pet for a weekend so the family/couple can get away for a few days.
  8. Don’t let children tease or torment any pet. Teasing animals makes them afraid and potentially aggressive, and it’s against the law to abuse and neglect pets. If you witness animal abuse or neglect, report it to authorities. There are laws to protect animals against abuse and neglect. Many people who start off being abusive and violent to animals end up treating humans the same way. Be a humane hero and help end animal abuse and talk to your kids about this important topic.
  9. The same applies to elder abuse and child abuse. If you see it or suspect it, report it.
  10. Call your mother. Be a positive part of her life if she is still living. Thank her for the good things she’s done, the encouragement and blessing she’s given. Forgive her if she wasn’t a great mom (we’re all imperfect after all). And, if your mother is no longer living, find a special way to honor her … by helping another mom or an elderly lady in some way. You can also give a memorial to a charity as a way to honor your mother, living or departed.

There’s a wonderful song sung by Glen Campbell, who I adored when I was young. There’s a YouTube video of a performance he gave in South Dakota more than 10 years ago reminding all to “Try a Little Kindness!” So appropriate for this special week of being kind to animals … and to people:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JX7NNMKBPsw

Let’s flood the world (at least our communities) with kindness toward pets and people this week, teaching children empathy and compassion, and thereby impacting their lives, another’s life, and even your own life, for the better.

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Gayle M. Irwin is writer, author and speaker. She is the author of several inspiring dog books for children and adults, including Sage’s Big Adventure, Walking in Trust: Lessons Learned with My Blind Dog, and two dog devotion books: Devotions for Dog Lovers: Paws-ing for Time with God and Devotions for Dog Lovers 2: Sage Advice. She is also a contributing writer to five editions of Chicken Soup for the Soul, including The Dog Did What?. She’s also authored a guidebook for owners of blind dogs, available on Kindle. She has a passion for pets and volunteers for and donates a percentage of her writing revenues to several animal welfare organizations. Her speaking engagements include presentations for children and adults about the lessons people can learn from pets. Visit her website at www.gaylemirwin.com.

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14 Responses to Flood the World with Kindness

  1. Reblogged this on L.LEANDER BOOKS and commented:
    One of my favorite author friends wrote this post on Writing Wranglers and Warriors today and I’d like to share it with you! Start your day out with kindness!

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  2. What a beautiful post Gayle. Some of us forget the simple act of kindness can brighten someone’s day. Animals are so loving and depend on us for leadership, but they bring so much more to our lives! Do you know how important you and your program for kids is? Just look at the face of one child as you speak and interact with your dogs. You are one special person and kindness comes naturally to you. I believe this post will cause some others to stop and think about what they can do for animals and others to make their life a little brighter.

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    • Gayle Irwin says:

      Linda, how deeply I appreciate your comments! You brought a smile to my face and happiness to my heart. You have blessed me with your kind, encouraging words — thank you! Hug your puppy for me, and here’s a hug back to both of you! 🙂

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  3. Doris says:

    You hit this one on the head. Wonderful post with positive ways to make a difference. Thank you. Doris

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    • Gayle Irwin says:

      Hi, Doris — thank you for your encouraging words and your kindnesses to me these past few years. I plan to be in the Denver area once again in August — I hope we can get together again for dinner or lunch!

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  4. Neva Bodin says:

    Kindness to animals is so important as I believe it is a forerunner to how someone will treat other people. Small children who torture animals have a real chance of becoming criminals or psychopaths. So your visits to schools and talks with children are of major importance. Keep up the good work friend!

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    • Gayle Irwin says:

      Thank you, Neva, for stopping by to comment, and for your uplifting words. There is so much “bad” out in the world, that we all need to “show a little kindness,” as Mr. Campbell so wonderfully sings about. Looking forward to seeing you and sharing travel and conference with you next week!

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  5. Thank you for the tips. I hope you have a nice week and an enjoyable Mother’s Day.

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  6. Mike Staton says:

    Wonderful post honoring moms and pets. Hey, the best moms always make sure their kids have pets and know proper way to take care of them, right? My mom’s in Heaven, but — like you advise — I honor her by giving to ALS causes. I don’t want other moms to go through what she had to endure before the Lord called her Home.

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  7. trainguy917 says:

    A beautiful post. With all the ugliness that seems to pervade the news, sometimes it’s easy to forget that there are truly kind people in the world. And sometimes it also feels like our kindness is a waste of time, but it truly isn’t for the person or animal to whom we’re being kind. Thanks for reminding me!

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  8. sstamm625 says:

    Very nice post, Gayle. One of the most important things we can be is kind–and some of us need reminding of that. You don’t seem to ever need reminding–as Linda said, it just comes naturally to you. Blessings!

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  9. Wranglers says:

    Where did my comments go? Gayle this is lovely. We all need to be kind to people and animals. My mom used to say, “What goes around, comes around. So treat people good.”
    Cher’ley

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  10. S. J. Brown says:

    The world would be a much better place if we were kinder to each other and all animals. It seems that people try a little harder to be kinder to one another around the holidays, but as soon as the holidays are over they revert back to their old ways.

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