A Tribute to Pets

Cody_GayleThis post by Gayle M. Irwin

“The road to my heart is paved in pawprints.” Such a sign hangs on our livingroom wall. No truer words were ever written or spoken when it comes to this lady. Since I was a child, animals have captured my heart, from dogs and cats to zebras and koalas. As a youngster and then a teenager, I collected posters of animals, in particular the exotics that I’d never see in the wild, such as tigers and mountain lions. I was a big cat fan, both wild ones and domestic ones, for most of my younger years. But after I raised my second dog from a puppy when I was a teen, both cats and dogs became my focus, and I’ve been loving them and helping them ever since.

Pawprints sign

On Thursday, my husband and I said goodbye to Cody, our nearly 18-year-old cocker spaniel we adopted in 2008. Friends of ours bid farewell to one of their beloved dogs this past week as well. Needless to say, it’s been a sad week. Had Cody lived until March, it would have been eight years since I saw him in a cage at the Casper Humane Society and a week later, adopted him – the best birthday present I ever had!

Cody fit well into our little family of two cats and a blind dog. Sage, our springer at the time, was a year younger than Cody, and though she and the cats had a bit of a struggle adjusting to this new dog (Cody chased the cats constantly for a few months, until one day, our black and white Murphy slapped him in the face), the three other pets and Cody settled into a much better relationship over time. From these experiences came my children’s books Sage Learns to Share and Sage Finds Friends. Cody also inspired Cody’s Cabin: Life in a Pine Forest. For years to come, readers of these books will be impacted by Cody, Sage, and my cats, Murphy and Bailey.

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Sage and Cody

 

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Bailey and Murphy

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Cody and Bailey

Over the years, I’ve learned much from animals, and I share those in my writing and speaking endeavors. So, here is a little tribute to Cody and to all pets who touch our lives on the lessons they teach us.

  1. Courage – Sage was lost for three days in the woods. Blind and alone, she survived in an area where black bears and mountain lions reside. Although I’ll never know exactly how, except for the grace of a loving Creator, she lived through the experience, and Greg and I were able to find her and bring her home safe. From that spawned Sage’s Big Adventure – Living with Blindness, a story that has captured the hearts of both children and adults, and reminds us all that animals are brave and they have value, no matter their abilities or disabilities – and that lesson applies to people as well.
  2. Tenacity – Again, Sage’s life is such a testimony, so is Cody’s. He lived to nearly 18 years of age, something not a lot of dogs do. He had major health issues, starting at about age 13, including nearly dying from an autoimmune disease. But, he rebounded, and he pushed through the many health setbacks thereafter. His heart remained strong to the very end, one of the reasons making that “tough decision” this week was even more difficult. However, his other issues, including kidney and liver failure and painful cornea problems, were too much for his aging body to tackle, and ultimately the reasons the vet said, “It’s time.”
  3. Friendship – Dogs and cats, and other pets, give us the ultimate friendship: devotion and love with no strings attached (well, except for food and shelter!). I’ve never known a human to wait at the door or window for me to come home – not even my husband or parents do that! That wagging tail, excited bark, rub against the leg and meow from my cats … each and every warm greeting is the ultimate in faithfulness and friendship as is the lying by my side when I’m sick or a head on the knee when I’m discouraged. Our friends’ dog, Chewy, was certified as a pet therapy animal, as is our Mary- together, we visited nursing homes and libraries, sharing information about animals and providing smiles to both children and the elderly. Pets give us the best gift in life: themselves.
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Chewy and Mary at library

There are so many other lessons we learn and gifts we are given by our pets, but these three to me rate at the top.

There is also the lesson in loss/grief. When Sage passed four years come March, Cody and the cats gathered around her on that final night. Greg and I weren’t the only ones crying. For days afterward, Cody searched for her. Mary has looked for Cody both inside and outside the house these past few days. I’m thankful Greg and I had Cody during the time we lost Sage and I’m thankful we now have Mary. Because of Mary, whom we adopted three years ago this month, I truly believe Cody lived as long as he did, for his health, both physically and emotionally, went down dramatically after Sage’s passing. Mary perked up our then 13-year-old boy and they spent many hours in the backyard, going for walks, and exploring the forest about our mountain cabin. We are dealing with the loss of Cody alongside our Mary-dog, and though the hole is deep, I know his life was good, especially these past 7.75 years with Greg and me. He was loved and cared for and he gave love and caring in return. Another lesson: sharing, the sharing of affection, of time, of caring and compassion, of experiences.

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Mary and Cody at the cabin

I am thankful to God for the gift of my pets, each and every one, from my childhood days to middle age years. I am also thankful for the gift of writing, the passion for writing, and the desire to share the lessons and joys of having pets. Although Sage and Cody are both gone from this earth, their legacy lives on in my books and stories, so through my grief I find joy and gratitude. My heart certainly has pawprints etched all through it!

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What pawprints have been left on your heart and what lessons have you learned from animals?

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Wyoming’s Woodland Cody-boy, June 10, 1998 to January 21, 2016. RIP, my friend.

Gayle M. Irwin is a writer, author and speaker. She is the author of several inspirational dog books for children and adults, including Sage’s Big Adventure, Walking in Trust: Lessons Learned with My Blind Dog, and Cody’s Cabin: Life in a Pine Forest. She’s also composed two dog devotion books: Devotions for Dog Lovers: Paws-ing for Time with God and Devotions for Dog Lovers 2: Sage Advice. Her latest work is a children’s book called Sage Finds Friends and she is also a contributing writer to five editions of Chicken Soup for the Soul, including The Dog Did What?. She’s also authored a guidebook for owners of blind dogs, available on Kindle. She has a passion for pets and volunteers for and donates a percentage of her writing revenues to several animal welfare organizations. Her speaking engagements include presentations for children and adults about the lessons people can learn from pets. Visit her website at www.gaylemirwin.com.

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17 Responses to A Tribute to Pets

  1. Joe Stephens says:

    Dogs and cats are, simply put, gifts from God. They teach us so many valuable lessons of love and friendship. Wonderful post! I’m sorry for your loss.

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  2. Neva Bodin says:

    Great tribute to your pets/family. You share your great empathy/love for creatures that my daughter does, and she held a dying kitty for someone else yesterday so had a very hard day also. What a gift God has given you and that you have passed on in your stories. You have my prayers as always.

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  3. Nancy Jardine says:

    I think it’s lovely that your pets always have some other pet around them and that Cody had you, your husband and the other pets nearby last week. My best wishes to you that the grieving process is balanced with the lovely memories you have.

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    • Gayle Irwin says:

      Thank you, Nancy, for your kind comments. Cody was a special dog and yes we have many lovely memories. We are working through our grief with the help of friends, both human and animal.

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  4. Wranglers says:

    So sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. We are blessed to have these Furbabies in our lives even if only for a short time. Lovely blog. I think pets also teach responsibility. Someone has to care for them. My first very own pet was a big yellow cat (a little fluffy ball when I got him). Mom didn’t like animals in the house, but she allowed Tom to stay in the house, he would go wake her up when he had to go to the bathroom. She gladly got up with him. I was ready to start 3rd grade when I got him. He died when I was a sophomore. It seemed to me that he was young to die, but I found him out back, stiff and cold. Cher’ley

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    • Gayle Irwin says:

      I too had a cat of my own when I was young – she only lived to be about 10. Another cat I had as an adult lived to 19 years of age. Our animals do teach us great lessons, things I am still learning. Thank you for your kind words and comments, Charley!

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  5. Your post brought tears to my eyes, Gayle. I’m so sorry for your loss and it sounds like Cody lived a very fulfilling and happy life. My Hana is my world and is my first dog. I always wanted a dog growing up but my mom didn’t want to have a dog in the house and I thought it would be unfair to have a puppy and not ever let him/her in the house. Our yard wasn’t very big. We had birds, a rabbit, and a turtle but I always wanted a dog. I was an only child and thought a dog would be such a wonderful companion. Hana is definitely a companion to me but so much more. She teaches me things like patience, compassion, and responsibility. Hope you and your husband are hanging in there and you’re in my thoughts.

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    • Sarah, I appreciate your condolences. I’m so glad you have Hana! My dad also didn’t allow dogs in the house, but I did have a dog as a teen. We had dog runs/kennels outdoors because Dad had hunting dogs. When Dad would go to work (he worked 4 to midnight shifts) I’d run up to my pup’s kennel and bring her down to the house for the evening! 🙂 I treasure all the pet memories that I have, and memories of Cody will rank very highly. Hubby and I are doing okay — we had many great years with our Cody-boy! Thanks again for your kind words! Hug your Hana for me!!

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  6. Doris says:

    As I type this one-handed, Gabriel is in my arms and won’t leave. Yes, they leave deep prints on our hearts and souls. Doris

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  7. Mike Staton says:

    I hope your post gets forty or more comments. Cody deserves it. Sharon’s cat Sandy lost his brother Risky several years ago. He still looks for him.

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    • Thanks, Mike — I believe some of my friends read the post but didn’t leave comments and I saw from FB where the post was shared by other friends. Pets truly touch our lives, and they touch lives of their furry friends, too. I don’t think Cody would have lived as long without Mary, for he grieved for Sage. We may have to find Mary another doggie friend sooner rather than later; we shall see. Thanks for your kind words and encouragement through this loss. Hug Sandy for me! 🙂

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  8. Few animals are subjected to such a pure and everlasting love as yours, Gayle. Cody was a lucky boy. I just know he and Sage are up there romping all over the place together, waiting for the time when you can all be together. You have touched the world with your special needs pets and the wonderful stories you have spun about life with them. Mary must be very lonely.

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  9. Thank you, Linda, for your sweet words; Cody and Sage were truly special to me, and I do hope their stories will bring people joy for many years to come. I’m so thankful to be able to write and share the specialness of pets with others! Great to have you back!! Hugs!

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  10. S J Brown says:

    Thanks for sharing with us. I admire all that you do to share your thoughts and views on animals, especially with children. Little minds are like sponges. It is nice to know there are people like you helping those little minds soak up compassion and love for animals.

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